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| This page is for the young girls/ladies. This is a special page because we hope to help young girls understand how serious life is and how special they truely are. |
| Young girls you need to slow down.I see you everyday rushing to be grown. You find older men attractive and you can't get along with you family. |
| I can't tell you how sad I get when I see you disrespect you family by trying to be grown. There are some things you need to hear from men who don't want your body. I'm a older guy who meets lots of teenaged girls who have the body of a women but the mind of a child. If you listen to what I plan to share with you,. you might save yourself from a lifetime of heartache and pain. |
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| 1. The saddest part of watching teenaged girls develope is what you do to your body. When you rush nature you get old fast. once you speed up your body clock it doesn't slow down. your body should be your temple. You are work in progress. Enjoy your youth because you will forever wish for these times. |
| please stop putting tattos all over your body. Do you understand the longterm effects of them? And look at the women who put their boyfriends name on them only to break up with him. I meet many women who did that and honestly men find that a strike against you. no man wants to see another man's name on his woman. Also, you are gonna get old one day. what will you tell your children about why you have them tattoo's all over you? and how would you feel if your gradmother had tattoos all over her body? |
| Same thing with those tongue rings and all other imtimate peircings. what statement are you trying to send? trust me you may feel it's cute but men only see you as a freak. A real woman doesn't need to put her private life out in the public. I resently had a older woman yell at me because I simply asked her could her |
| young son fight.Little did I know her 12 year old son has had 2 fights so far defending his moms honor. She felt she could wear a tongue ring even if it meant her children suffering. Think about how things you do and how it affects others around you. |
| Rather then worrying about how fine you are,focus on your mind. Learn all thing things your school has to offer.your education is so valuable but if you run away as a young girl, you will be running back as an adult. Trust me. older men look for you because they know you don't know much. yes, you may have some street smarts but older men will run circles around you. the lesson you will learn from dating an older man is mostly bad stuff. ask yourself this.What do I have to offer an older man other than my body? nothing. you haven't finished learning yet. |
| Everybody wants to be loved but don't let that ruin the rest of who you can be. |
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| 2. the next painfull thing to see is a teenage mom. Yes young girls bodies can produce a baby but look at what comes along with this. your body changes so much that the cute shape you were so proud of is the first thing to go. The wear and tear on your body will cause you so much stress that you will have skin problems. your hair will change and you are gonna gain some pounds. |
| Every women I've talked to who started having sex early regrets it.Each lady feels it forced them into a world their bodies weren't ready for. I find this strange to be writing but I must say this. Can you please wait until you turn 18? |
| You have your whole life ahead of you why force things? |
| Plus all us old guys want from you is your body. no matter how mature you feel you are all you have to offer us is sex and most older guys who date you younger girls can't handle women there own age. Older men come after young girls because by the time you figure out he aint sh#t he is long gone while you are hurt alone and with child. |
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| 3. Young ladies what do you care about? do you care about yourself? do you care about anything? you must understand your role in life.You are Gods gift to man and you must understand what that means. Please listen to that voice in your head. it's your soul that will keep you from danger. Your desire to be loved or wanted shouldn't blind you from the truth. YOU ARE SPECIAL! |
| You will bring life into this world so everything inside of you will be inprinted in that child.Do you understand what that means? it means everything you learn your child will learn from you.If you drop out of school how much can you teach? what did you learn? do you know that everything you eat your child will eat too? if you smoke or drink so will the baby inside you. |
| allow your pride to kick in before it's too late. You don't owe no man anything. I want you to start a new way of thinking about yourself. don't fall for stuff. Old guys know the best way to get you is with a fancy car or other shinny things. don't sell your soul for stuff. |
| Start looking beyond man's toys or words look at how he's living.What is he doing for himself? if he can't take care of himself what can he do for you? nothing! |
| If he drinks, gets high, or is just a bad man then if you have his baby you may get a baby that is just like him. that is his seed. you plant a apple seed and you get apples not dirt. yes you can raise a child alone but do you really want that? if you keep in touch I plan to teach you how to empower yourself so you will spot dogs and losers before it's too late. |
| Never sink down to his level. Make him come up to yours.If he doesn't have goals or can't stay out of jail you shouldn't even give him the time of day. yes I mean that.until a man can take care of himself he doesn't deserve a woman. |
| In closing if you dig deep inside yourself you will find a very special person who has so much to give to this world. Love yourself. Honor your family and a good man will find you. |
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