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| Mr. Cam Words |
| This Website that allows women to ask a man about real situations that help in finding real man. If you're a woman who has picked bad men to fall in love with then this site is for you. Each week we will post true situations from real people to find the right solutions. As a single man I have to admit how much it hurts men to see so many women falling for dog men only to wake up after a child is born. If we can help one woman overcome then this site is not in vain. I will have both good and dog men read your situations and answer them from a man's point of view. I will post things such as what men think about today's women's fashions. The weight of women. What men really want from women? Do men want kids? How can we get men to care for their children? How to know if he's a dog. Is he a good man? These are just a few of the questions I will feature. If you will open your mind then you can learn but I'm not hear to fight you. If you are happy the way things are going then fine. I want to help the true Queens who deserve to be treated right. |
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| Mr. Cam's Words |
| What is more important? To look good or to feel good? I see so many women who put looks ahead of everything else. School, Work, church, kids, etc. If you spend good money on the latest styles go get your nails done every week, change your hairstyle and color every week this is for you. Who are you doing all of that for? Who are you trying to attract? You should hear what we men really say about women's style. Yes we will step to you but then again we will hit on anything when we are horny. Do you know what men think about women with tattoos? Or women with implanted breasts. What about women who wear revealing sexy outfits? If you follow some of my steps you will be able to present yourself in the way you wish to attract your soulmate. |
| You love him but does he love you back? |
| Whenever I talk to women about man problems the first thing they say the reason they allowed this dog to hurt them they say "Cause I Love Him" If I had a dollar for every time I heard a woman say that I'd be a very rich man. Next time you're watching a talkshow you'll see my point. Ladies, Love shouldn't hurt. If you find yourself crying yourself to sleep over a man then that's not love. Love is not following a man around to see if he's cheating on you. Love doesn't make you do stupid things to keep him. If you find yourself wanting a man so bad that you forsake your happiness as well as your children then it's not love. No man who really loves you would put you through all that pain you are going through. The sooner you are able to admit this you will be headed towards happiness. |
| Can I make my man Love me? |
| NO! Don't fool yourself, look at all the women around you that failed trying to do that. What makes you feel you can do what women have failed at for centuries? By nature men roam around looking for new things to explore. Only when a man is ready will he settle down. Love is word women seem to be chasing but not a man. A man cares for you and he may even tell you he loves you but many only say it because you require him to say it to get sex or whatever else he really wants from you at that time. If you are involved with a man ask him if he loves you. And don't ask him while he's horny for sex. Ask him while you are eating or at a time when he is relaxed that why you can get his true reaction. Get back to me with his reaction and I'll tell you what he really meant. |
| You love him but do you like him? And does he like you? |
| I stumbled on to this while soul searching inside myself so if this helps you I want credit! I figured out that it is more important to be liked than loved. Follow me. Love makes you do crazy things. Like makes you enjoy being around them. Look at how you treat those friends you like. You would never hurt nor harm them but look at how you treat your family. You can't stand to eat at the same table with them. You treat people you like better then those you love. Therefore I want you to like me because when you love me you can't stand to hear me breath. Take this and apply it to your next new relationship. Like him first and see if he likes you too. If he likes you he will respect you, respect your kids, and enjoy being around you for more than just sex or money. He would be there for you like he is for his male friends. Notice how he will find time to chill with his homies. He likes them he only loves you! Get my point? Tell me what you think. |
| It was your decision to allow him into your heart. |
| Face it. You picked a loser to fall in love with. The sooner you admit that you can move on. How many good men have you pushed away to get to him? Then only after he has dogged you so bad do you cry for help? I want you to really understand how much it hurts me to see you do this. You give your best to a sorry guy and only after he scars you up you move on. But he is in your heart forever. As long as you have his child he will have a bond with you like it or not. Every woman I know whose head was to hard to listen is now suffering from the decisions that they made. Why cry if you chose that? If that is what you wanted then work it. I'm not trying to punish women I just want you to own up to your pick. The next question you need to ask yourself is where do I go from here? Focus on raising your kids as best you can. They need you more then he does. And why would you want a man who can walk away from his babies without support to be around you anyway? Do you want his poison to spread around your children? The laws are in place to deal with deadbeat dad's use them. But you will only suffer more trying to hurt him for what he isn't doing. Focus on being happy and a man who wants to make a family with you will find you. How can any good man find you if you are busy chasing a bad man? You deserve to be loved.... But love yourself first. Move on. |
| What do you really want from a man? |
| Do you want good sex? His money? His children? You need to ask yourself this because you get what you ask for. The thing you need to ask is he the man you want to be the father of your children? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? As long as you follow your heart instead of you head you will end up hurting and alone. Find out if he is headed in the direction that you wish to go. Men tell on themselves but women see what they want to see to feel loved. If he's a dog admit it. Men will create the illusion of a good man but you need to be wise. It's not what it looks like it's what it is. If he can't take care of himself, how can he take care of you? Or a child? Don't find this out the hard way when you are in the delivery room alone. |
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| Why are you ladies so upset at todays men? |
| Who's raising these no good men? Whos teaching them to make babies and not care for them? Who feeding them? Who's buying them all those nice clothes? |
| Look at it this way.If you were raising plants they would be dead by now. Today's dogs/players all have a mother or female who will bail him out of any of his mess no matter what. Women you are loving your sons to death! |
| I'm not saying you are the total blame but I am saying it is your love that makes him grow. |
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| Look at your son as someones husband. Is he ready to be the head of a household? No, because many of you don't want him to be. Many of today's men have been raised by single mothers who only had children because they wanted someone to love them. If he leaves these mothers will be alone.Before you pick a man as your mate please look into his background. If you have his child will he be there for you both? |
| I feel genetics also plays a big part in todays men.just like the color of his eyes and his skin complexion your son will begin to act just like his father even if they never met. Have you ever looked at your child and said "you just like yo daddy" ? |
| Then you know what i'm saying. |
| If you plant apple seeds you are gonna get apples. |
| If you plant a dogs seed you get puppies. |
| I'm not saying all kids are ruined but until you start to admit this fact and change you will continue to produce dog men. |
| Stop settling for less in us men. Stop listening to our words. look at what we are doing. |
| A player/Mac uses his words to get women. |
| If you ever been sweet talked into sex then you have been played. |
| I see how hard you are on good men and it hurts me. |
| You just lay down like a rug for the losers yet you run games on the guy who really wants you. |
| If you are tired of the games then from this day on stop playing. |
| I'm not saying i such a great catch but until women wake up I refuse to play games. |
| I know many good men who feel the same. |
| I want to see family's together. I want men to come home and I want women to want us men there with them. Can we start a movement to bring the love back? if you're with me let me know. |
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| Contact Information |
| Email us your story or problem that you need help with. I will have my team of men read and answer you from a man's opinion. If you don't want your name or email address added we will honor your wish. We will change all names to protect your Identity as well as that of those you may name. |
| Send your email to: askmrcam@aol.com |
| Web address: ASK MR. CAM |
| I look forward to answering your email. |
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| Biographical Information |
| Ask Mr.Cam: I'm a middle 30's black man who has never been married. By choice. Yes I date. I have no children. I graduated from high school and I have some college although I haven't finished yet. I have a job but I'm working on a career change soon. I'm involved in helping the youth as well as the homeless. I started a company the made novelty products and I also worked in radio. I recently started a charity organization to help those in need. Email me if you want to join. I'm a caring man who only wants to share the joy and happiness that was shared with me. |
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| Future Projects |
| When this site picks up we will create a dating site to connect good women with good men. |
| Coming soon: Goodmanfinders.com |
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