Ladies here's your chance to let us guys know what you truely want. You talk openly to your girlfriends so why not speak openly to us?
We can learn from your words so please show me what you want.
Let this be the start of men understanding women enough the respect your feelings.
This letter is our first post. I was blown away by Kims words.tell me what you think of her post?
 
From Ms.Kim,
I am just upset at how our sisters  lay around and complain about how they want a good man and how they need a good man and what they are going to do to get that good man but none of them want to really do anything but sit and lay around on their backs and screw every married man that comes along until they get the one with the most money and trap them.  that's their way of getting a good man taking left overs from a  women that has worked all her life and has a home, nice cars, beautiful kids and something going for her.  instead of being a women and stressing no they decide to be a girl and spread their legs.   and for what to get nothing but a child, cause most of the time after they find out about how wonderful the guy that they lay down with and how he has nothing  besides his skin, they don't want him anymore especially if he leaves his wife they only want you if your attached cause that's the game that our sisters play.    I'm not saying all black women but the ones i came encounter with is like this,   There has never been a time that i wouldn't lift my finger to help another black person i love to see our kind get ahead but what i have been through is the ones that are jealous cause you have long hair or nice clothes or even if you aren't on drugs and screwing half the town they say your the slut. i can go on and on cam. if you want to know more just ask.
Ms.D.T
I want a man who is honest.  Honest to God, to himself and every one he
encounters male and female.  Many people don't relize that one lie leads
to another and another.  Where do they end up?  Do they finally begin to
believe their own lies?  I met a man who was a few years younger than
me.  I listen intently to him.  He told me about his life, past
relationships, his children, his parents, his jobs.  He had two jobs, I
met him on one of his jobs.  We worked at a high school.  I am a teacher
and he is a janitor.  I don't look down on men because of their
occupations.  He transferred to another school and began calling me when
was transferred.  Initially during the first month our conversations
went on for hours and hours.  I thought I was getting a good insight
into who he was,  later I realized that was not so.  The conversations
were more a philosophical and hypothetical nature.  After spending some
time with him, many quirks in his personality started to come out. One
time he left his water running in his bathroom, which I noticed when we
entered his apartment.  I mentioned it and I think maybe I turned it
off.  It was so strange that it did not bother him that it was on.  A
few days later he mentioned that we should not try to change each
other.  That people should not go into other people's  homes and
rearrange or tell them what they are doing wrong in their homes.  But
leaving the water on was so strange to me.  Most normal people do not
leave water running when they leave the house.  Many things kept
happening, like he did not want me to meet his children.  I was so
special in his life, but not special enough to meet his children.  He
said he told his parents about me, but I never met them.  He always had
an excuse as to when I would meet them.  He talk about an Surburban Jeep
he own, I never saw it.  He said he was a director of security for this
major company, but he never had to meet with his superior.  He said they
communicated by memos.  Before I was a teacher I worked in the corporate
world and knew that could not be possible.  I finally knew that
everything he said was a lie and I felt his feelings for me were a lie.
The relationship came to an end and I learned one lesson from this.
When they start hesitating about  you meeting their children or parents,
the relationship with the mother of the children is still intact and you
are being played.
 
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